摘要：

本文在跨文化的视角下对比和研究了中美婚姻观的不同，并通过资料对比分析了造成两国这些不同的原因。本文的目的在于讨论和分析跨文化视角下中美婚姻观的不同及其原因。作者提出该问题的原因在于尝试解释为什么同为全球经济强国，中美婚姻观却有如此大的差异。本文通过对比中美两国人对于婚姻的态度、家庭条件、婚礼、对于离婚的态度和造成这些不同的宗教、自然环境、社会风气的方法，阐述了造成中美婚姻观不同的原因，得出了比较客观真实的研究结论。

关键词：对比研究；婚姻；跨文化

Abstract:

For all kinds of different between the people in China and America and the cause of the difference has been debated all the time, and the real causes of these difference can not be interpreted easily. The purpose of this article is to discuss and study and try to analyze the different view of marriage in China and the United States under different perspective and find the reasons. The reason why the author puts forward this question is that he is trying to understand how come the marriage has such a big difference when both of these two countries are economic powers. In this paper, through the contrast between the two countries people's attitudes towards marriage, wedding, family conditions and view of divorce by comparing the religion, natural environment, social ethos, expounds the cause of the different in marriage, .come to the objective and authentic conclusions.

Key words: comparative study; marriag; ecross-cultural

1. Introduction
The beginning of the marriage is when two people from two different families formed a new family.
For all university students are at near graduation, marriage is no longer seemed so distant, love is no longer like mystery of our lives, so we have to face the problem is marry and settle down. It can't help making us confused: what kind of marriage is perfect for all of the people? What are the advantages and disadvantages about the marriage that run by the elders?
Author thinks that to study the marriage between China and America through cross-cultural perspective is a very meaningful study which can bring him a lot of inspiration.
This article through several aspects such as the history, culture, economy, politics, to study reason that cause so much differences on marriage between these two countries. The authors believe that it will be helpful for us to understand the culture of the two countries, and bring us some inspiration and help for the marriage of our own.